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RELATIONAL SUCCESS COURSE

Learning to Balance Power and Intimacy in Relationships

  

RELATIONAL SUCCESS
Online Marriage and Relationship Courses

Many of us struggle in our relationships with the people we love. Why do we keep having the same disagreements? What helps us feel happy, fulfilled, and connected?

Relational Success begins with a simple idea: every relationship needs both Power and Intimacy. I have used this concept for more than 25 years, both in my work with couples and in my own life.

Power helps us protect ourselves, have a voice, make choices, establish boundaries, and influence what happens in our lives. Intimacy helps us connect, trust, care, cooperate, and feel valued and cared for by others.

Power and Intimacy move in complementary, opposite directions. As Power goes up, Intimacy goes down, and as Intimacy goes up, Power goes down. They are like oil and vinegar in the salad of life. Too much of one can overpower the flavor of the other. The key is learning to balance these two needs.

Where do you fall on the balance between Power and Intimacy?

The first step is discovering how you use Power and Intimacy in your relationships. From there, you can begin learning how to create greater balance in yourself and in your relationships.

The Relational Success courses help you identify your learned relational styles, understand how they influence your relationships, and practice tools for changing unbalanced relational patterns.

Begin with Foundations to understand yourself, then continue with Practical Tools to apply what you’ve learned. Study on your own or alongside your spouse, at your own pace, with unlimited access.

Lighthouse on rocky coast during sunset.

Lighthouse on rocky coast during sunset.

RELATIONAL SUCCESS COURSE

POWER

Relational Success Part 1: Foundations
INTIMACY

    

 PHYSICAL   SAFETY

 

SECURITY

 

FREEDOM

 

RESPECT

 

HONOR

 

ACHIEVEMENT

 

SUCCESS

 

SURVIVAL

 

CONTROL

 

RELIABLE

 

CREATIVITY

 

COMPETENCY


INTIMACY

Relational Success Part 1: Foundations
INTIMACY

   

 EMOTIONAL   SAFETY

 

RELATIONAL

INVOLVEMENT

 

ACCEPTANCE

 

BELONGING

 

TRUST

 

FELLOWSHIP

 

EMOTIONAL

ATTACHMENT

 

CARING 

 

PURPOSE

 

UNITY

 

VULNERABILITY

Relational Success Part 1: Foundations

Relational Success Part 1: Foundations
Relational Success Part 1: Foundations


 Understand your Power and Intimacy relational style, explore the Eagle, Owl, Dove, and Hen strategies, and discover areas for greater balance.

What’s Included

10 chapters--

 49 short, self-paced lessons--

Two relational assessments--

Practical exercises--

Personal growth plan--

Unlimited access for one person

$69, one-time payment

ENROLL IN COURSE

Choose Your Relational Success Program

Relational Success Part 2 Practical Tools

$69.00

One-time payment

 Learn practical tools to balance Power and Intimacy, improve communication, and change relational patterns. 

  • 8 self-paced chapters
  • Practical tools and handouts
  • Unlimited access for one person
ENROLL IN COURSE
Complete Program

$109.00

One-time payment

 Both courses for one person, from understanding yourself to changing relational patterns 

  • Foundations and Practical Tools
  • Save $29 when purchased together
  • Unlimited access for one person
ENROLL IN COMPLETE PROGRAM
Complete Program for Couples

$179.00

One-time payment

 Both courses for two spouses. After purchase, email your spouse’s name and email address to:  jtlmft@aol.com so I can set up their separate account and enroll them. 

  • Foundations and Practical Tools for both spouses
  • Two separate student accounts
  • Unlimited access for both spouses
ENROLL AS A COUPLE

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